Truth

why is it that it is the most difficult to be truthful to the ones we care about and the most easiest to the people who dont matter to us? i think it should be the other way around. i know it wont make the most sense or will it follow the general norms of logic, but life would definitely be so much more easier if that were the case. i try to be truthful but at all times or most of it for that matter and it comes out in the wrong way which when understood might create relationships or destroy them depending on the nature of the topic at hand. this thought alone is a killer and thus i think most of us are hesitant in being truthful. i think if both parties were to understand the nature of the topic and then realize and think from both points of views, one might just be able to get out of all the chaos created in the mind of the teller and would work for the sanity of the relationship. i dont know. speaking aloud i guess. or speaking out. u pick!!!