Theory of No~!!!

hello... NO.... are you... No.... will you.... NO..... Please..... No.... i wonder what it takes people to actually turn around and give a yes in the first time around. why is it the desi mentality to say no to every god damn thing on the face of this earth. why does everyone turn around and say no to the one standing next to them. why cant it be a yes and thank you very much and lets get our lives moving... why does it always have to be so damn harrrrdddd and a process in itself to actually make an effort to go out and convince the person and literally beg them to say yes to anything.... .i wonder. i just wonder....